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  There are plenty of fish in the sea: Just make sure yours isn't a Shark!

 


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Why it can happen to anyone:
The records for divorce and marriage are not kept in a national database. There is no way to verify someone's eligibility to legally marry short of hiring an investigator to travel to different counties and states to
 research through each system. Each county keeps records their own way. Many do not even have divorce records in the same building as marriage certificates. These bigamists are geniuses at subterfuge and social manipulation. They can fool anybody and everybody. They can be ministers,lawyers,doctors and highly respected people in the community. They can be the neighbor next door, your sister-in-law or even your own father! You will not know. Background checks can sometimes give off clues, but most of these bigamists focus so much on their "public persona", that background checks are usually not considered necessary.

They are in the churches, civic groups and ethical organizations and are well liked. They have secret lives and are completely comfortable with their situation . You will find them in bars, on dating sites, even the good ones that do personality testing and on other web sites.  They coach your children, sell you your insurance, and your groceries. They have no conscience about what harm they do and will seem genuinely shocked by any discussion of wrong doing on their part. Instead there is real anger at the people who have stood up to the treatment given by the bigamist. The bigamist will live thinking their victims have horribly wronged them. This has been described by some as a form of sociopathic behavior. I don't know about that, but it is true there is no remorse in the cases I have seen.


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